You’re an Inspiration

For about two months, I have been receiving a mail every couple of days from a lover of The Spider’s Web (my book). The message is always the same, inviting me for lunch with her friends. I was hesitant at first, but curiosity got the best of me. I finally agreed to meet with this lady and her seven friends. I’m proud to say I had an amazing time. No dull moment: from signing their books, to answering questions on my female characters, to talking about my next book, dating/ relationships and talking about just anything. Plus, the Chinese food was sumptuous. The four hours away from my personal space was so worth it. When it was time to go , they handed me a hand-made card with a beautifully wrapped gift and thanked me for being an inspiration. I was moved to tears. It brought to mind a favourite quote of mine: “Your life is your message to the world; make sure it’s inspiring.”


That event got me thinking. Inspiring others come naturally when we as individuals learn to inspire our own self; to build up our own life; to strengthen our own mentality. As we face the trials of life, making the choice to not give up, to focus on the word of God and the positive outcomes and, to not let a toxic environment change our perception of life, molds and shapes us into pillars of strength.

There are hard days. Oh boy are there some hard days! Days where you question everything! You question whether your goals are worth the heartache. You question whether the sacrifices you are making will pay off in the end. You want to give up and just stay right where you are. You are at the point where you feel mediocrity is okay and you will be happy living that way. Those questions are natural and they are also necessary. When we push through the pain and the doubt, we eventually walk into something beautiful: our dreams and goals realized.


Remember this; today the storms that you are facing will one day be over and the experience from that will be used to encourage, motivate and inspire another person in the future. When you follow your heart, you overcome every obstacle life throws at you. Your beautiful life is an inspiration to others – stay the course.

We can choose whether we break down or build up others. The choice determines the legacy we leave behind


About Ezar

I'm in love with my dreams, married to success and having an affair with life ;) I live for the moments you can't put into words and I dont look back...unless there's a good view.

Posted on May 16, 2016, in Relationship and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.

  1. Oh absolutely to your last picture.
    We NEED healthy girlfriendships behind,beside,in front of and all around us. Eeeeeeeeeeek!!!! What a prayer to pray!!!


  2. Considering d dual personality of man,d personality dat inspires is d outward hypocritical one dat tends to please people.The ‘home’ personality may be terrible nd uninspiring.This is common wit celebrities.


  3. I thank God for d true role models dat inspire their fans nd those around them.Many hv personal attitude problem in their private life dat is very offensive.


  4. We live in d world of ‘make-over’.We make-over who we are(d real me)so that people barely know our true colour.


  5. Those who seek life-partners must pray to d God who knows all hearts…our motives nd attitudes.Otherwise we end up wit a made-over spouse, a total stranger.


  6. EZAR,u are a true inspiration. Whether privately or publicly,u are a sweetie,a smoothie.Kudos!


  7. @Eden,u are just right..Ezar has personally inspired me,no be small ooo.U are not known to fake character.U can blush,….bt it is the truth.kudos! Kudos!! Kudos!!!


  8. Ur Vale family can testify that u are a precious Jewel of inestimable value… tested,sealed and sought-out..sought out by many youth who desire a mentor,a role-model,an achiever etc.On all count,u are a selfless precious gem,my Diamond,my Sapphire.I love You!


  9. My Angel,u are fearfully,wonderfully and beautifully made by the Lord,the Great Potter of the hclay.I appreciate ur passion, hardwork,creativity,and selfless service to humanity,especially to the girl-child that u are.May ur light shine brighter and brighter unto the perfect day.May d Hand of the Lord always be upon You,to enable You fulfil His Purpose in ur generation.I see d travail of my soul and I am satisfied.To God alone be all d glory and praise.My Baby-girl,I am so proud of u,and I love u plenty.Lots of kisses!


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